India is known for its rich heritage, culture, and its powerful legacy. “ India” in which marriage is considered as a holy ritual in which people take oath in front of Lord Agni. The oath of living happily together. But now this meaning is changing now we can witness increasing divorce cases. Many divorce cases are filed to date, but mostly the reason is family conflicts. This conflict leads to the death of many.
The latest and the burning example is the suicide of an IAS officer Manoj payday (batch 2012 ). By the way, in his confession video, he said that my family is not responsible for my cowardly step. He also mentioned that my mother and my wife loves me a lot, and I have a daughter. But he also admitted that after marriage his life has many ups and downs. he said that many conflicts happened between his mother and wife.
This is not just a single case in which people commit suicide they are much more but not under the spotlight. It's a very common issue, and I witness a lot of cases regarding this. For a mother, it is very difficult to hand over his son to someone else (wife). But this is not reality. Almost all the mothers keep hammering their minds that after marriage my son is no longer be mine. He is no longer going to follow me. This is also a reason for conflict. But it’s very difficult to analyze the main reason. Due to some conflicts, they don’t want to live with their in-laws. They reduce their family from larger to smaller ones. That’s not a solution, actually, they are allowing problems as a part of their family. The youngest one in the family is no more able to get the love of the eldest one. In some cases, man has asked to choose between his mother and his wife. How can anyone choose a single person? On one side that lady is standing which gave birth to him, nourishes him, educates him, And on the other side, that lady is standing with whom he wants to spend his all moments, share his all problems and secrets.
Don’t allow all these problems to take over you. Change your mentality, be a mature person, and modern by thinking. Don’t think that the girl will come to your house is someone else. Accept her as a daughter and this also applied to a girl also to accept her as a mother, not as a mother in law. Allow them to accept each other fairly and purely. Don’t take the stress. Give time because time heals everything. If you are not able to find solutions to your problems then share it with your family. Ending life is not a solution. Think about the people behind you, your mother, father, wife, son, and daughter. Acceptance required. Acceptance is the desperate need for marriage. Accept each other as the way they are.
