Ending Helplessness

Dear girls, may I have your attention, please. Please stop comparing yourself with the uneducated unmannered four-footed animal COW. You are far better than the animal. You can sense what is happening in your surroundings. You can change wrong into right. And the most important thing your brain works faster than the boys, so why this meaningless comparison? First, you say that girls are on the same page with boys, which means girls are working very well. You are top rank holders not only in board exam but, also in the biggest competitive exam of India that is UPSC. You are flying in the sky, crawling in the tunnel, climbing the mountains, bagging medals in sports, and even reach the space. But what happens to you when you meet a man at the vacuous place where only the dark night is with you. The next morning you are on the road with your hands holding a banner, protesting, and now hiding your face behind cow mask. The person who at first on the sky, and within seconds standing on the road, protesting and demanding their rights. Don’t forget Durga never ask anyone to help her. Be a Durga not only in sunlight but also in the moonlight. First, learn how to help yourself.

In everyday life, you carry a lot of stylish weapons with you, but the problem is you don’t even know that your ornaments, shoes, sandals, nails, can work as a weapon. They are enough to protect you. You wear the edgy necklace, pointed heels, spiky earrings if these things can add charm, so the other hand they can be your warriors also. Don’t apply kajal in your eyes like jangle bili, be a jangle bili when you are trapped among dogs. Don’t paint your nails to look beautiful only, use it when you get stuck. If you don’t know how to protect yourself no one can protect you.

Today the wrongdoers are freely moving on the road and the victim is still behind the door. So, please break the door. They can scratch your flesh only but, they never scratch your dream. So stop living behind the door you haven’t done anything wrong. Don’t ruin your dream by keeping yourself behind the bar. Fly high in the sky. When someone meets the accident, then the first question arises is “who will marry”? Don’t forget marriage is not oxygen. Take a stand of yourself. Don’t look to others. You don’t need anyone to take a stand of yourself because you are enough. You are a wonderful creation of God, so live your life in a unique way.

Life Is Not Like A Race

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When students hear the word "Exam" it creates a different kind of psychological pressure in their mind. They start thinking about it more and more, they even pressurize themself. for them, it's like a giant is coming slowly and steadily. Some parents are more nervous than their children. in some families, they even put restrictions on the extra activity of their children and ask them to focus on their studies only. They have a messy timetable which is difficult to handle. They get very little time to entertain themself. When students start their studies in higher classes, their parent's expectations also shore high. The only way to achieve good marks and to fulfill their parent expectation is to work hard. When exams are over, they have resulted in pressure, and when results are out they have admission pressure.

"Pressure" this word has both positive and negative effects. Due to this pressure, some students do well, an example is last year JEE topper but, when some student fails to get good marks they move in depression and, this depression leads to suicide.

It may happen that students are prepared for the exam by remembering their notes and solving problems, but the increasing suicidal cases show that students are not prepared mentally. For any exam or for any competition mental fitness is required. Why are students committing suicide? It may the fear of not fulfilling their parent expectation. Don’t forget that your parents are always with you. Don’t leave them for just a failure of an exam.  

Life is not like a race so, please doesn’t run. Don’t take study as a burden, take it easy. When you start ignoring a small problem it becomes larger and larger so, don't ignore it just shake hands with it. Don’t leave your problem to unsolved, because it chases you until you solve it.

During the study, if you don't want to read then leave it, take a break, take a walk, fresh your mind, and then come back to study. The most important thing is to manage your time. Take a snap of 6-7 hours it's very important.

Only think about the present, not about the future. Make your present good future will become better.

Life is very beautiful; don't waste it by killing yourself.