रेत पर अपनी बिसात बिछा के
अपनी चुनरी नदी किनारे सजा के
वो एक दिन दूर निकल जायेगी
हवाओं में खुद को घोल के
दिन की रौशनी चुरा के
वो एक दिन दूर निकल जायेगी
रातों में ख्वाब सजा के
तकिए के बगल वाली रौशनी बुझा के
वो एक दिन दूर निकल जायेगी
तारों के शहर में।
I have to say something
As this year comes to an end I have to say something. There are a few things that I want to talk about today.
Value Family
If you have a family count yourself lucky. Not everyone is lucky as you are. Not everyone has a family-like you have. It's ok to argue and have some heated discussions because not all the members would agree to your points and vice versa, but never hold that argument in the heart and feel sad about it. it's your family and will be yours forever.
Value money and time
We all have faced a hard time this year and what it teaches you that having money in your pockets is a big relief. When thousands of people lost their job and if you are working and someone from your family is working it's a blessing for sure.
Time is a ticking friend, not a bomb. In the past years, we kept pulling ourselves away from the persons in our life just because of lack of time. This year we all are home not running and chasing something. So devote your precious time to the people around you.
Never lose friend
It is difficult to lose a friend and even difficult not to say sorry. Because you are stupid enough for forgiveness. We all have different opinions and we all have the right to express it in our way, and if your friend's way is giving you some uneasiness then communicate, don't cut the whole link. Be easy, try to say sorry even you think you don't deserve it.
Don't start meaningless communication
When you talk to anyone have a genuine conversation, do not bring anyone's matter just to tease them or make fun of them. if there is nothing to communicate don't communicate do something else, create something, write something. Look within and find yourself.
Enjoy the journey
Life is never about a goal it's all about the journey. When you accomplish a goal set another and keep the fire intact. Don't be a lazy bone. Keep exploring yourself.
Be easy on yourself
It's very difficult to forgive ourselves, we keep thinking about the same old us and our disastrous behavior, but it's ok we are not the same old us. We are evolving every single day. Learn to forgive yourself quickly.
Wish you a Very Happy New Year. Make friends, value person, keep shining😊😊
COMMUNICATION
“Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing.”...
This is the unknown quote copied and pasted from google. As I was thinking about writing something on anger the first thing that came to my mind is the lack of communication. Whenever I see angry people I observed that most of the people do not communicate when they get angry and if they do they talk unthinkably.
I will find another day and another fresh blog for the reasons why we get angry. For today let's stick to the communication.
WHAT HAPPEN WHEN WE DO NOT COMMUNICATE
when we do not talk to anyone then we assume the situation and try to fix the persons in certain roles. In short, we play a mind game. We keep assuming and assuming and fill our heads with all those uncertainties that never happened and probably have no chance to happen in the future. We even try to pull back all the past moments which were forgiven but, for now, they act as fuel. All these situations lead to anxiety, depression, and extend our duration of sadness and lack of communication.
WHY WE SHOULD COMMUNICATE
Communication plays a major role in our day to day life. When we share some harsh moments we feel light and happier when we share our happiness. The more we talk the less it leads to misunderstanding.
In spite of getting angry when we communicate then we open our hearts, we share our feelings, we understand each other which grows our relations.
Talking to each other is the solution to many hidden problems.
So open your hearts and grow together.