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MARRIAGE, A SOLUTION?

Those are lucky people who enjoyed the marriage ceremony early this year. The thing I missed this year the most is getting ready for a wedding. As in the lack of the glitters around me I came to know about marriage as a solution.Solution for what? And what's the problem? I still don't know the problem which gets solved by getting married.  Is marriage important? For the sake of living, absolutely not because marriage is not oxygen. People can survive without marriage. But here is a twist, if people want the materialistic pleasure of this world they have to marry, as there is no concept of partners when it comes to our law. As our law accept husbands and wives.  Which kind of solution I am talking about? Let's first have a bite of the so-called problem. ( It's about both sexes) As I came to know that if a person is not productive, in a sense not economically independent, they should marry as there is 90% of chances that their partners will make them economically independ...

Look within

 Whenever we share something very personal thought and incident with someone we expect them not to share this with anyone and above that we expect, to feel the same way as they have felt it and keep this in their heart in the way they have taken care of it. Is it ok? Is it normal? I used to think in the same way, in fact, many of the time I even try to hold the person in my life just because they know something about my life, and now how can they leave? LET'S NOT HOLD ANYONE When we hold the people in our life we develop an expectation. And let me tell you that expectation is the real energy vampire in our life. According to Dandapani, there are 3 things in our life which consume our energy and they are people, things, and the past. Let's drop this topic for another blog, presently focus should be on expectation.  It's very difficult to not expect from the people. We are humans, social animals and, we need people. It's like to be around a plate full of food and not sali...

A MESS

We are living in a world where everything has a price. The way of paying can be different but, everything has a price. From childhood, we were provided with whatever we needed without telling the price, but when the child enters the adolescent they are told that everything has a price. Now the situation is when the child was not taught how to value things till the age of 13 or maybe 15. How can one suddenly know the value of the things in their teenage?  Then there is unconditional love. Absolutely by our parents. They are the perfect mess cleaners of ours. No one is going to clean your mess as cleanly as your parents and most importantly their forgiveness. Those who are kept well in their cocoon don't like their cocoon and those without the cocoon need it badly. The point is we don't like where are we now. We always chase happiness we don't bother to find it out hidden inside us.  So once we are out of a cocoon and placed in this world of conditions we get into trouble. we...

फूलों वाला पेड़

फूलों वाले पेड़  के नीचे बैठ के  दो कपड़ें वाले रिश्तो को वो प्यार के धागों से सिल रही थी बीच मे जब कभी धागे अटक जा रहे थे तो वो बड़े शान्ति से उसे अपने उंगलियों पे ले, सुलझाती थी पर धागे इतने ढिठ हुआ करते थे कि फसते ही जाते थे फिर भी उसने गुस्से मे आकर कभी धागा तोडा़ नहीं कल उसने वो चादर उसी फूल वाले पेड़ के  नीचे बिछाया था लोगों ने उसपे बने फूलो को सराहा, उसके रंगों की तारीफ़ की बीच के सिले धागे  पेड़ पे लगे फूलों को निहार रहे थे। 

चल रे मन

 अंधेरी रात में  तारों की चादर ओढे आंसमा के एक छोर से  दुसरे छोर को बेवजह ढूंढने  की कोशिश करते हुए हवाओं को देखने की लालसा लिये उनके अतरंगी से रंग उभारते हुए उनकी ही गुदगुदी मे खो जाने की एक ख्वाहिश लिए चल रे मन कहीं दूर चलते हैं

What is it

Why the world is so large Why can't it be like a tiny house   Roof studded with stars  Moon taking the corner seat and  The sun opposite corner They can play hide and seek In a room they don't need to explore the whole universe But wait, What is the Universe? Full of stars, clouds, dust, expanding What is it? Why there are so many planets and we living on one and exploring the whole? Why we are living? What's the point of living Waking up with a body  Changing the clothes Going from one point to another Just chasing something What is something? What is it?