Look within

 Whenever we share something very personal thought and incident with someone we expect them not to share this with anyone and above that we expect, to feel the same way as they have felt it and keep this in their heart in the way they have taken care of it. Is it ok? Is it normal?

I used to think in the same way, in fact, many of the time I even try to hold the person in my life just because they know something about my life, and now how can they leave?

LET'S NOT HOLD ANYONE

When we hold the people in our life we develop an expectation. And let me tell you that expectation is the real energy vampire in our life. According to Dandapani, there are 3 things in our life which consume our energy and they are people, things, and the past. Let's drop this topic for another blog, presently focus should be on expectation. 

It's very difficult to not expect from the people. We are humans, social animals and, we need people. It's like to be around a plate full of food and not salivating. I know it's difficult but obviously not impossible. It requires a level of dedication not to think on the negative side and just to be focused.

In the billions on identification, we have billions of ideas and billions of ways to achieve our goal which is presently the expectation. Before thinking about the solution let's think about who you are? And that's going to help to find the solution to all your life problems. The more we look within the more we find the world peaceful and the better place to live in. 

Find out who are you? What you want? And have crystal clear ideas and opinions. Once you get this it will be easier for you to let go of the people who are not made to stay.

                                                                    LOOK WITHIN