Everyone Should Know

 I watched a video of Kiran Bedi's ma'am, three years ago.  She was talking about the 7 researched answers people should know before turning 30. 

When I was a little one my grandfather used to say "जब जागो तभी सवेरा". So it's not only for the people aged below 30 it's for all.

1 Cope with uncertainty

As we are going through a very crucial time and we don't know when things are going to be normal. In all these months we have realized what matters in our life, and how we should Handel this situation. Life is full of uncertainty. There is nothing certain or permanent. So we should learn how to deal with this uncertainty.

2 Graceful communication

Most of the time we use to say such things that we do not mean from our hearts, and we end up with a sad mood. 

Sri Sri Ravi Shanker je used to say that even if you are complaining to someone, complain about a smile. 

 

3 Respecting other with diversity

India is a diverse land with diverse culture and people and so do the people have diverse thoughts, opinion, and mindset. So in spite of arguing we should respect their choices and opinions and the way people are.

4 Ask for help / learn to say NO

Many times we crumble under our overthinking without seeking help, which ultimately leads to worry, or if it is on a regular basis it leads to the depression. The same applies to an act of saying NO. We hesitate a lot in saying no. We started thinking about what the other people will fill or think. Which is of no use. One should always fill themselves before filling others.

5 Never give up

Always be clear what you want from your life and what you seek. Have your goal set and put all your energy into that. 

6 Value money and time

Money is the input of time. So whatever you are doing to your time will lead you towards your future. So spend these two precious ones wisely.

7 Cooking 

The best I came to realize in the past few months. Again the ongoing condition has taught us the value of cooking. It's also a way of independence (not depending on restaurants and dhabas).

Cook healthy eat healthily.

These all are my interpretation of the 7 bulletin points. You can create your own or you can suggest to me also. 

चोला

कल तक जो आवरण

ओढा था उससे जि

भर गया है 

सोचती हूँ कुछ चमकीला पहनूं

लोगो कि आँखें  टिके जिस पे

सादे कपड़ों को छांट 

के एक कोनें मे सरका दिया है

बडी़ फीकी-.फीकी लगती है

रंगों वाले कपड़ों कि पोटली

भी बांध रखी है

जब जी करे 

रंगीनी ओढ़ लिया करुंगी

सब नया होने के बाद भी

अन्दर कुछ पुराना

रह गया है।

Social media

According to Talkwalker, there are 1.36 billion people in India who use social media. And the total population of India is 135.26 crore (2018). Now social media is not just a platform where you share your views, thoughts, and opinion. It is standing huge today by holding the position of the social media campaign. The digital platform has provided us easy access to each and everything. The flow of news is more quickly, well spread, and faster even faster than the forest fire. Which kind of news is being spread and who are the people reading the news justify what the news is. The less you research the more clutter of news you will get. And your opinion goes like that. 

Social media has made us lose our calm quickly as we use to be in a hurry to post anything. Rumors can be spread quickly, and just after that opinions are also made.

Let's take an example. When someone gets an arrest warrant in any case like crime just on the basis of mere suspicion, the news used to be like that person is criminal. We always forget that it's just a mere suspicion and his\her crime is yet to be proven. So how can you hold that person accountable?

Justice through social media

Let's go 3- 4 years back when ME TOO campaign was flooded on social media. I am not saying the campaign was wrong. it takes lots of courage to pen down your horrible part of life and above when everybody has access to what you have written. My question is there were so many who just wrote what happened to them they never reach the police. One of the posts that I read says all and even said that she will not file complain. In this way, nobody is going to get justice. Social media has no judiciary system yet. But it does have influence. The influence which makes you think. 

Healer or Peace wrencher- It has both properties. It can heal you and it can wrench your peace too.

totally depends on you.

Before coming to any point, going through the news will reduce the burden.

Think before typing. 

ख्वाब

                   (Image- Rural Marketing)

नये जोड़े मे आंचल के साथ

संजो के वो ख्वाब लाई थी

बहुत ही हल्के से ख्वाब,

हवाऐं अगर उन्हें छूं ले

तो वो आंचल छोड़ 

कहीं उड़ जायेगें

इस डर से

हर रात सोने से पहले वो

उन्हें गिना करती थी

कुछ दिन पहले की ही बात है

उसके दो ख्वाब

आंसुओं के समंदर में खो गये

और एक चुल्हे मे जल गये

वो उन्हें जितना ढूढ़ती गई

उतना ही टूटती गई

अब वो उन ख्वाबों को

अपने पैरों में बांध के

घूमती है।

Happiness

Happiness can not be described in words. It is feeling that we feel, we observe from the twinkling eyes. Happiness is everywhere in flowers, in the skies, in water droplets, in mountains, in every single corner of nature. 

We human beings exclude ourselves from nature most of the time and look at them as masters and just because of this we are not able to fill the beauty of happiness.

Happiness can never be achieved by getting a perfect job or by becoming rich. This is the internal feeling and it has nothing to do with the money and status. I am not denying the value of money but comparing it with happiness is something I do not advocate. 

Many of the times we feel low, and when we ask ourselves the question why? The reason comes is so small, for e.g someone not liked my picture on social media, someone not responded to our feed, someone didn't text us, and many more. 

By doing this we are neglecting our value in our eyes. We are valuable to ourselves even if we are not valuable to others. It can be possible that we are of no use in someone's life but we are so useful in our lives. So in spite of focussing on other glasses to look at ourselves why not we look at ourselves with our own glass. 

 

The search for happiness ends at you. Look within.

अह्म ब्रमहास्मी 

I am the universe

बहुत दूर, कितना दूर होता है

मानव कौल 

पहली बार मैने इन्हें तुम्हारी सुलु मे देखा, दुसरी बार Music Teacher मे तिसरी बार किताब के पिछले हिस्से में और चौथी बार इंस्टाग्राम पे, जहां से मैने ये तस्वीर चुराई है जिसकी मुझे खुशी बहुत ज्यादा हैं। 

बहुत दुर, कितना दुर होता है 

 ये इनकी चौथी किताब है। इन्होंने इस किताब मे वो सबकुछ लिखा है जो मै अपने डायरी मे भी लिखने से डरती हूं। 

बचपन कि बातें आगे जाके कितनी सच होती है इसके बारे मे तो नहीं पता पर ख्वाब देखना गलत नहीं है। ख्वाब देखेंगे नहीं तो वो पुरे कैसे होंगे?

जो बातें मै हमेशा सोच के चुप रहती थी, उन सबको पन्नों ने एक आवाज दे दी। भीड मे अकेलापन ढूढ़ना या अकेले मे अकेलापन ढूंढना ये सनकी हुई बातें लग सकती है पर ये है बहुत खूबसूरत। 

इंसान खोखला होता है या वो बंधना नहीं चाहता

इंसान दोनो स्वरूपों मे मिलता है। एक तरफ वो सोचता कुछ है और कहता कुछ है। इसलिए नहीं कि उसके व्यवहार दो धारी है बल्कि इसलिए कि वो बंधना नहीं चाहता। कई बार हर बात कह देना हमे ज्यादा कमजोर करता है। जरूरी नहीं हर विचार को अल्फाज मिले। कुछ आंखों तक आके रूक जाये तो अच्छा। 

अगर भावनाओं का सच जानना है तो energy का दरवाजा खटखटाना चाहिए क्योंकि वो कभी झूठ नहीं बोलते।

क्या समय के साथ बह जाना ही सही है

लेखक खुद एक जगह कुछ दिन रूकना चाहते थे पर वो रूके नहीं उन्होंने जो कारण दिया वो बिल्कुल सटीक है पर आजमाने चले तो थोड़ा अटपटा लगे। शहर के एक कोने से दूसरे कोने तक कौफी, crrosiant और कहानियों  का सफर बहुत ही खुबसूरत रहा। 

DO WHAT YOU LOVE

DO WHAT YOU LOVE 

This one is not just a sentence but our whole life seems to stay away from this. We think about the people, about society, about those people whom we don't know and they really have nothing to do with our life.

But they do have an opinion. So do we need to bother about their opinion?

No, absolutely not.

let's take the one thing very seriously. 

you can never make everyone happy. No matter what you do people found some reason to get worried. And if you are running around them to chase them, to make them happy, to please them, you know what you are losing something. And it's you.

How can you survive by losing yourself? If I lost myself then who I am?

Never lose yourself. Always stick to your thoughts.

What to do

1) Never, please - stop running around and saying sorry even if it's not your fault. The people who belong to you will be in your life no matter what. So stop running.

2) Speak your heart - Always say whatever you feel. Energy never lies. Follow your energy.

3) Gratitude- Be thankful to whatever you have. This brings gratefulness. Being more aware of your life brings happiness.

4)Be real - be who you are. 

  

Apart from all have a check on your habits.

Do share your opinion, I will love to read.  

😊😊😊

Regards

peace 

रोटी

कल कि रोटियों मे स्वाद नहीं था

एक अजीब सी कडवाहट थी

हर निवाले के साथ

गले मे कुछ फसता

सा चला जाता था

मुंह का स्वाद अब 

चेहरे पर दिखने लगा था

मन हुआ कि उसे

पास कि नाली मे 

जाके उडेल दूँ

पर कदमों ने हामी नहीं भरी

रसोई में जाके देखा

तवे खुद ही जल रहे थे

बहुत देर चुल्हे तकने के बाद

ये सोचा है कि

कल से रोटियों के साथ

प्यार सेका करूंंगी।