Life on your terms

Living life on your terms. Is it easy? The first question is what is the term? What is that which we do not want to compromise? Isn't everything start with us and end with us? And when we talk about life, what do we really talk about? What is life? I think this should be the first question. What is this which we are living every single day? 

From my childhood, I didn't think a lot about life and all. For me, life was getting good marks that's it. 

Life for me is finding myself for now. The more I work on myself, the better I know myself. I am the biggest mystery. I do not know what is going to happen and in what way I am going to react. React because I am still learning how to respond.  I am the biggest project here. 

I do believe now when you know yourself, you know your terms. You know what you want from life, or I  must say you stop looking the wants outside once you know yourself. 

I have seen people from my family giving advice on how other people should live. And the irony is they themselves do not know how they are living. They do not know who they are. Their life mostly revolves around their spouses and children. And later comparing them. Moving talks used to flow from one corner of the house to another. I know I am asking for too much if I am asking from the people to mind their own business. 

Making an intellectual family is my dream. ( Family here I mean relatives also, which are hard to work on). 

The place where success is celebrated by all. Celebrating the success of others shows you are a happy person. And we are not happy people. We indulge ourselves in so many things that we forget to look inside us.